Are guys basically assholes? No, but there are asshole guys (I am sure I am one of them). The question posed is basically pointless and she should look inward for the answer.
"Do I subconsciously look for relationships that will fall apart? Do I find something in them later that I can't stand so that I can exit the relationship before it gets too serious? Is the particular type of guy I like really good for me and what does that say about me? Am I really one for long term relationships anyway?"
I just think pointing to "all the guys" out there and essentially placing blame on them is misdirected. We're all screwed up. I personally think that there's no real rule-book to relationships. Drama is quite genderless. Too bad this article answered, well, nothing at all. Was that the point?
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