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Re: “Is it unethical to play gay to get the girl?

@SowingaMinefield, try running my user name through google dude...

Doing your hair and putting clean clothes on a clean body is not the same as lying, no matter how much you try to justify it to yourself. It's just not.

Posted by DateWrecks on 06/21/2010 at 1:29 AM

Re: “Is it unethical to play gay to get the girl?

Midtown Maven -- " trying to make that initial connection with someone we really, really want to get to know" -- So that's what you think? You think these fauxgays REALLY want to get to know someone? That they want to hear about your family and hang out with you in your Sunday sweatpants together and watch the game? That's not the audience that the faux is after.

Oh Jeez, so wearing a push up bra is akin to lying about who you are in order to get pussy play?


Do I put my best foot forward when dating? Sure. Does that make me a liar? No. There are certain things you're honest with right out of the gate -- if you have children, if you're a recovering alcoholic/drug user, and if you're married. Falling in a DUH-This-Shouldn't-Even-BE-On-The-List Obvious fourth is your sexual orientation!

It all falls under the umbrella of intention and the intention that's being encouraged under this post is, "Take advantage of women because they're stupid."

Further, when I'm seeking to have casual sex, I not only expect honesty from a partner, I demand it. If he's going to lie about being gay or straight, why wouldn't he lie about his marriage? Or maybe that pesky case of the 'herp? Having casual sex doesn't mean I want to volunteer to break up marriages, get my coochy infected, OR fuck liars.

This sentiment that women should just settle for liars, cheaters, sex-crazed, can't-be-faithful douche bags is deplorable. EVEN IF we're just talking about casual sex. Shit, if you want anywhere near my goodies, you still have to have a backbone and be a decent person. It's possible to have casual sex with GOOD men.

And calling Michael the Queen of Hyperbole is laughable, at best. He's just a want-to-be "fratirist", misogynistic straight man douche bag in a (squealing) ADORABLE gay package so somehow, what he says doesn't count. What the fuck ever.

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Posted by DateWrecks on 06/17/2010 at 2:28 PM

Re: “Is it unethical to play gay to get the girl?

This is the most ridiculous bullshit thing I've ever seen in my life.

If your intention was to create traffic to your column by being absofuckinglutely outrageous, then tough shit. I'm not even sharing this atrocity with my friends.

"Here's the irony about dating: Lying is the only way to get a shot at making an authentic connection. If you don't set the bait, you'll never get her close enough to have the potential for an honest relationship."

You, Michael Alvear, are the very thing that is wrong with dating today. "Fuck being real. Don't ever be yourself. Be someone else and the grrrradually change who you are. You're not good enough as your authentic self, so you're going to have to lie about who you are in order to land a date."

FUUUUCK YOU, sir. Fuck you very muchly.

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Posted by DateWrecks on 06/16/2010 at 1:05 PM

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