she's probably not interested in you if she tells you about her future plans with her boyfriend. just saying. MOVE ON and be good to your wife and kids.
*Do not* go to cheating as your best option. Obviously there is something wrong here, more so with her if she's not horny... it is probably something emotional for her or something completely underlying that you are not aware of (obviously). Not to be the Devil's advocate but men are a lot of times rather oblivious to emotional issues women are capable of having. If she is cheating, so be it - you will get it out of her eventually...but don't resort to doing the same thing by getting a mistress that she is unaware of. That's the asshole thing to do. Obviously you care a lot about her and your family if you are sticking around and looking for advice/help. I would try to convince her to go to couples therapy before you resort to divorce as well. Therapy can be very helpful for some, and perhaps it'll even help you realize it if there's something you have done to add to the issue or maybe even cause it from the start. Let her know that you care enough to do anything it takes to make this better and get down to the bottom of it instead of blaming her for not being horny.
Just because "In God We Trust" is on our nation's currency doesn't mean it has to be on our license plate, which we vote on AS A STATE. we have our own state government for this very reason!
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