Wednesday, December 23, 2009
News The Sexorcist: Has she reached her sexual peak before reaching 30?
Posted by Web Editor on Wed, Dec 23, 2009 at 4:25 PM
Dear Sexorcist:
I’m a female about to turn 30, so I should be “in my prime,” right? Well, both my boyfriend and I are totally frustrated by my lack of sex drive, which seems to rear its head only on the weekends. Once. Maybe twice. We argue over the situation if he wants to get it on during the week, leaving me even less likely to cave in and do it, which, I’ll admit, I do on occasion just to make him happy. WTF is my problem? Help!
— Suffering in Stone Mountain
Dear Suffering:
Wow. You’re turning into the kind of woman who’d rather sleep in her bed than make love in it. I Am Woman, Hear Me Snore. Don’t beat yourself up over it, grandma, there’s help. You’re wrestling with one of two kinds of libidinal depressions: low libido or low sensation.
With low libido, you don’t want it, you don’t fantasize about it, you’re not even receptive to it. You’re the vegan at Fat Matt’s Rib Shack.
With low sensation, you think about it, you want it, you’re receptive to it, but your body isn’t. A classic case of “the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.” As much as you want it, there’s a measurable lack of lubrication, decreased nipple sensitivity and reduced clitoral and labial sensation. You’re Mary Norwood on election night.
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